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Death to the New Year’s Resolution

Posted by Jessica Boscarini on Friday, January 2, 2015

Happy New Year!  Another year has just begun, as has another list of our New Year’s Resolutions.  For the majority of us it’s all the same: eat better, lose weight, exercise more, bla-bla-bla.  But then, come mid-February (and often earlier than that), our must-do, “this year I’m going to stick with it” plans, fall by the wayside and we fall right back into our old routine of “I’ll workout tomorrow” and “I’m only going to eat this way today.”

Why is this the way it always goes?  Why can’t we just stick to our goals already?!  Because this is what Resolutions are!  They are far-fetched “ideals” of things we wish could happen, but yet aren’t worth putting the effort in for.

I say it’s time to kill the New Year’s Resolution – in particular the one regarding weight loss and being ‘healthy’!  Why set yourself up for failure and disappointment? 

Instead, let’s make this year about “lifestyle” change!  Think about it as something you are not only doing for today or for instant gratification, but how this one decision is going to affect the rest of your life! 

This is NOT a 2015 goal or aspiration, this is a better you for years and years to come!

But how, you ask, do you make such a huge change overnight?  It’s hard enough sticking to a plan for a couple weeks! 

Start with changing your mindset. Here’s how to do it in 7 steps:

  1. Think about the big picture and how you are going to feel 1 year from now. 10 years from now.
  2. Think about your children and then their children. Don’t you want to be able to get down on the floor and wrestle and play with your grandchildren?
  3. Think about the role model you want to be, and the things that you want your children to accomplish.  How do you want them to feel about themselves? How do you want them to view you
  4. Now, think of the past.  Think of how you have mistreated your body with the food you put in it and the lack of exercise you gave it.  How did this make you feel?
  5. Now, tell yourself that the past is the past, it is behind you and that is where it is going to stay!
  6. Look toward the future and ONLY think about the future.  You can’t go back and change the past, but you can make a difference for a better tomorrow!
  7. Finally, tell yourself that you deserve to feel good about yourself and you deserve to be happy!  (Do #7 everyday.)

This list is not going to magically change you overnight, but it should get you thinking about you, the future, and how your role affects the future of those around you.  By changing your mindset and the reasons why you want to get healthy, the “chore” of getting there will naturally disappear.

I agree that New Year’s Resolutions are good in theory.  It’s great to have a goal or something to aspire to.  But the problem is, they are not personal enough.  It’s time to think about YOU!  Make yourself – and your health – the priority. 

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As the Founder of Healthy, Fit, Fab, Jessica wants to help Moms and Moms-to-be feel and look their best, from the inside, out. With her Master’s in Holistic Nutrition, as well as being a Certified Personal Chef and Personal Fitness Trainer, Jessica's biggest accomplishment is being a Mom to her son Kaston (born 12.1.12) and daughter Kenzley (born 7.9.15).